{"id":990,"date":"2016-06-08T16:28:34","date_gmt":"2016-06-08T16:28:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/?p=990"},"modified":"2016-06-08T16:33:23","modified_gmt":"2016-06-08T16:33:23","slug":"june-weddings-anniversaries-and-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/2016\/06\/08\/june-weddings-anniversaries-and-children\/","title":{"rendered":"June weddings, anniversaries, and children"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"BrideHistorically, June was the month when most people wed, and there are some interesting reasons for this. \u201cDuring medieval times a person\u2019s annual bath\u2026 usually fell in May or June, meaning that June brides still smelled relatively fresh\u2026but just to be safe, brides carried a\u00a0bouquet of flowers\u00a0to hide their body odor.\u201d This informative fact is from the website for the Topeka and Shawnee [Kansas] County Public Library. Another reason in the past for the popularity of June weddings from a Huffington Post blog by destination wedding planner, Sandy Malone, is that \u201cthe tradition dates back to the Roman times when they celebrated the festival of the deity Juno and his wife Jupiter, who was the goddess of marriage and childbirth, on the first day of June.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOn a practical note, others chose June in order to time conception so births wouldn\u2019t interfere with harvest work,\u201d the same Topeka library reports. It\u2019s not very romantic to think about smelly summer brides or babies scheduled around a farmer\u2019s calendar, but weddings continue to be planned to allow newlyweds and their families to arrange work vacations.<\/p>\n

Now days, Malone finds that even destination weddings occur almost as frequently in most summer months since there are reduced rates available in the off-season. As for 2014 statistics, it appears June (15%) is still the most popular month, but October (14%) is a close second from www.prnewswire.com<\/u><\/a>. May through October are all strong months, with December gaining ground. But I admit that having a June wedding myself fourteen years ago, found me nostalgically reminiscing about the life-changing event that a wedding is. After all, wedding anniversaries serve as a tangible reminder of the love story that two people share. Even the most unromantic of folks would have to admit that reliving the beginnings of their relationship can rekindle the wonder of how they found their way to each other out of all the human beings in the world.\"Bride<\/p>\n

Yet the day-to-day grind, hectic schedules, and trying to constantly share, can leave even devoted soul-mates perplexed at the concept of doing life together. In many ways, perhaps, this is why statistically speaking, marriage is on the way out. That part about, \u201cUntil death due us part\u201d has lost its luster for younger folks who see how poorly those of us of former generations have done it as indicted by the divorce rate. \u201cAfter decades of declining marriage rates and changes in family structure, the share of American adults who have never been married is at an historic high,\u201d reports a September 2014 column from the Pew Research Center. Specifically, they cite about one in five adults over 25 equating to 42 million American adults as having never married, although they frequently marry later. The opinion about \u201cthe role marriage plays in society\u201d is a vital factor as Pew Research also finds, \u201c\u2026with young adults much more likely than older adults to say society is just as well off if people have priorities other than marriage and children.\u201d<\/p>\n

Still, children are being born, and experts say that they fare better when they live with parents who are married. \u201cChildren raised in intact families have, on average, higher academic achievement, better emotional health, and fewer behavioral problems,\u201d states www.familyfacts.org<\/u><\/a>. Other websites also confirm that married parents are usually at an economic advantage, and have more time to spend with their children. It appears whatever month a wedding occurs in, it is more than a union between two people. It is also about their offspring, extended families, and society in general. That\u2019s why a wedding anniversary is such a milestone. It is a statement of celebration and hope.<\/p>\n

\"LarryIf we do make it anniversary after anniversary, there is an incredible reward in having someone know us better than anyone else. Hopefully in also having that same someone in our corner during the rough times and celebrating the good times. Marriage isn\u2019t anything like a romantic novel or movie, which creates unrealistic expectations. Admittedly, it would be pretty impossible for an ordinary man or woman to live up to the leading characters in a Nicholas Sparks\u2019 film.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t movie-script predictable. It\u2019s always a risk, and sadly divorce can happen to anyone, rendering emotional heartbreak. Yet hearts heal, and anything worth very much in this life is generally a risk, but some risks are worth taking. That\u2019s why an anniversary can be a wonderful reminder of the miracle of real love!<\/p>\n

Christina Ryan Claypool is a freelance journalist and inspirational speaker. Contact her through her website at www.christinaryanclaypool.com<\/u><\/a>. <\/em><\/p>\n

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