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As we observe Thanksgiving week, everyone seems to be talking turkey, family gatherings, and all about giving thanks. Yet, maybe you haven\u2019t been at the top of your game lately, which can make it difficult to have an attitude of gratitude. Whether it\u2019s losing a loved one, unemployment, a chronic health crisis, or a financial dilemma, life\u2019s circumstances can really get you down.<\/p>\n
Down is where Los Angeles judge, John Kralik was when he began to write his 2010 memoir, \u201c365 Thank Yous,\u201d later known as, \u201cA Simple Act of Gratitude.\u201d The book\u2019s back cover says that this inspiring story is about how, \u201c\u2026 writing thank you notes \u2013 led a hopeless, angry, middle-aged man out of despair and into a wonderful life.\u201d Kralik\u2019s book is not really as much about writing thank you notes, as it is about becoming aware of the many blessings one is granted daily.<\/p>\n
For example,\u00a0Ed Ball is grateful for, \u201c\u2026family and friends.\u201d Ball is the executive director of Ohio’s Shelby County Veterans Service Commission. Ball graduated from Sidney High School in 1976 and two days later was in basic training. After a 20 year career in the Navy, he returned to his hometown, and today assists those who have served our country.<\/p>\n
Although for many military families, Ball admits that it is, \u201cA tough time of year\u2026We have a lot of veterans not only here in Shelby County, but across Ohio [and all across our country] that are deployed to Afghanistan,\u201d he said. There is an upside though, because \u201cWe had 2,000 personnel [from the Ohio National Guard] return\u2026this year. They will be spending the [holidays with their families]\u2026for that we are grateful,\u201d said 55-year-old Ball.<\/p>\n
Still for many there is an empty place at the holiday table. I know my Mom and\u00a0Stepdad’s absence is something that I’m still getting used to after two years. Like me, many of you might have a loved one overseas, recently deceased, or just\u00a0absent\u00a0due to a broken relationship.\u00a0Or you might spend your holiday dinner alone, since many families feel the fracture of divorce or even simply geographical distance.<\/p>\n
Still there are things to be grateful for, no matter our circumstances. Because in\u00a0another book about gratitude titled, One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are<\/em>, author, Ann Voskamp displays how it is the little blessings that folks often overlook.\u00a0 Voskamp\u2019s memoir is all about answering some difficult spiritual questions like, \u201cHow does one slow down enough for the soul and God to live in synch?\u201d<\/p>\n After all, to experience gratitude one must reduce life\u2019s pace, and become aware of the significance in the seemingly insignificant. Thankfulness not only at Thanksgiving, but all year long can be a powerful tool indeed. \u201cTo fully live \u2013 to live full of grace and joy and all that is beauty eternal. It is possible, wildly,\u201d writes Voskamp in her poetic style.<\/p>\n Truthfully, I haven\u2019t always known a lot about gratitude. Rather, I lived much of my life with the cup half-empty mentality, like many Americans concentrating on what I didn\u2019t have. Not so much desiring material things, rather missing the little blessings that are easy to take for granted. Now I strive diligently to appreciate what each day brings. And sometimes on holidays when your family is broken, or you are grieving for\u00a0someone who has passed away, I know this isn’t easy.<\/p>\n Still\u00a0regardless of\u00a0what is going on in our lives, if we look closely, we will usually find that there is much to be grateful for. After all, there is a God who loves us unconditionally, who will never leave us alone, and who can do anything but fail. \u00a0For now, from the Road Less Traveled, a Happy Thanksgiving holiday to you all, and remember to give thanks!<\/p>\n This column is dedicated to Kimberly Winegardner, my precious friend who won her final battle over cancer on Oct. 1, 2012, by going to be home with her Lord.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" As we observe Thanksgiving week, everyone seems to be talking turkey, family gatherings, and all about giving thanks. Yet, maybe you haven\u2019t been at the top of your game lately, which can make it difficult to have an attitude of … Continue reading