{"id":352,"date":"2019-02-18T04:00:58","date_gmt":"2019-02-18T04:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/?p=352"},"modified":"2019-02-18T21:36:31","modified_gmt":"2019-02-18T21:36:31","slug":"clemmies-colorblind-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/2019\/02\/18\/clemmies-colorblind-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Clemmie\u2019s Colorblind Love Lives On"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Secrets-Pastors-Wife-Christina-Claypool\/dp\/1973601354\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1337\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Secrets-of-the-Pastors-Wife-final-cover-193x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"193\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Secrets-of-the-Pastors-Wife-final-cover-193x300.jpg 193w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Secrets-of-the-Pastors-Wife-final-cover.jpg 561w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 193px) 100vw, 193px\" \/><\/a>During Black History month, we remember those courageous people who positively impacted us. If you read my recently released book,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Secrets-Pastors-Wife-Christina-Claypool\/dp\/1973601354\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=\"> &#8220;Secrets of the Pastor&#8217;s Wife: A Novel,&#8221;<\/a> you will learn about the example and sacrifice of a loving black woman named Elizabeth &#8220;Lizzie&#8221; Jones. Lizzie is based on a precious lady who is an important part of my own history.<\/p>\n<p>To explain, during the racially turbulent sixties, as a Caucasian child growing up in the Midwest, I didn\u2019t know anything about racism. Therefore, it seemed only natural when Miss Clemmie came to take care of me and my siblings, while my mom was seriously ill.<\/p>\n<p>Clemmie was an extremely overweight African-American woman who had a heart as huge as the girth that surrounded it. My financially struggling family couldn\u2019t have paid her much of a salary, yet she lovingly looked after all of us. With Clemmie there, I instinctively knew that everything would be alright.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1258\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Christina-as-a-little-one-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Christina-as-a-little-one-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Christina-as-a-little-one-150x200.jpg 150w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Christina-as-a-little-one-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/>What I didn\u2019t know then was that a Civil Rights movement was being birthed out of the frustration regarding injustices that African Americans like Clemmie could no longer bear. Not yet a first grader, I couldn\u2019t imagine anyone hating such a wonderful woman, simply for the color of her skin. Eventually, my mother regained her health, so Clemmie no longer came to care for us. Yet her colorblind love, which was based on her faith in the Gospel\u2019s message, \u201c\u2026Love one another, as I have loved you\u2026\u201d had made a lasting impression.<\/p>\n<p>A few years later, on June 11, 1963, President John F. Kennedy gave his memorable Civil Rights address calling for an end to the acceptance of segregation in educational institutions, retail establishments, restaurants, and hotels. He also demanded that African Americans be able to vote without the fear of harmful consequences.<\/p>\n<p>Just hours after Kennedy\u2019s eloquent speech, Medgar Evers, a Black Mississippi Civil Rights leader was brutally gunned down by a white Ku Klux Klan member. Evers, a World War II Army veteran had survived the Battle of Normandy, but that June night he lay bleeding to death in his own driveway. Fifty minutes later, he died at a local hospital.<\/p>\n<p>Although I\u2019ve never been grievously wounded like Evers, I do know what it feels like to lie on cold asphalt too hurt to move. As an eight-years-old girl walking to\u00a0school, I tripped and fell so hard that it momentarily knocked the wind out of me and scattered my science project everywhere. I was blocks from my\u00a0family&#8217;s house,\u00a0but an older\u00a0middle-aged woman heard my cries, and rushed down her porch steps to care for me.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t know my Good Samaritan who shared Clemmie\u2019s mahogany complexion. My grandmotherly rescuer tended my cuts, and then she carefully helped me put my science project back together. She smiled with maternal satisfaction when she finally sent me off to school. That beautiful smile is a treasured memory, as is the remembrance of Miss Clemmie\u2019s massive arms hugging me to her bountiful chest.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to remember the selfless acts of compassion of others. Because whatever our race, everyday society gives us the choice to tolerate racism based on the justification that someone of another ethnicity probably once mistreated us.<\/p>\n<p>T<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-937\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/photo-13-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/photo-13-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/photo-13-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/photo-13.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>he\u00a0late Jewish Holocaust survivor, Liesl Sondheimer, often shared a profound truth regarding racial forgiveness. Like Nazi Hunter Simon Wiesenthal, Mrs. Sondheimer spent decades retelling the painful account of the extermination of more than six million European Jews during World War II. Unlike Wiesenthal\u2019s quandary concerning forgiveness outlined so poignantly in his book <em>The Sunflower,<\/em> my dear friend, Liesl, always maintained that, \u201cYou must forgive, but never forget, or Hitler has won.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Christian apologist C.S. Lewis once wrote, \u201c\u2026if we really want to learn how to forgive, perhaps we had better start with something easier than the Gestapo.\u201d But Mrs. Sondheimer didn\u2019t have that choice.<\/p>\n<p>Yet we all have a daily choice about permitting racism, which continues to be just as deadly to our society, as Hitler\u2019s gas chambers once were. But sadly, not everyone has a Miss Clemmie or a Liesl to teach them what compassion for their fellow man is all about. Still, if we follow Jesus&#8217; command to, &#8220;Love one another,&#8221; it would be a much better world.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1197\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1197\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-1197\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Christina-Ryan-Claypool-for-Website-smallest-192x240-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-1197\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mike Ullery photo<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em>Christina Ryan Claypool is an Amy\/Ohio APME Award winning\u00a0freelance journalist and inspirational speaker. She has been featured on Joyce Meyer Ministries Enjoying Everyday Life TV show and on CBN&#8217;s 700 Club. Her Website is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.christinaryanclaypool.com\/\">www.christinaryanclaypool.com<\/a>. Her novel, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Secrets-Pastors-Wife-Christina-Claypool\/dp\/1973601354\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=\">&#8220;Secrets of the Pastor&#8217;s Wife&#8221;<\/a> is available at all major online outlets.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>During Black History month, we remember those courageous people who positively impacted us. If you read my recently released book, &#8220;Secrets of the Pastor&#8217;s Wife: A Novel,&#8221; you will learn about the example and sacrifice of a loving black woman &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/2019\/02\/18\/clemmies-colorblind-love\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1258,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[69,75,74,67,71,80,73,68,72,78,66,1003,70],"class_list":["post-352","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-a-spiritual-path-on-the-road-less-traveled","tag-black","tag-c-s-lewis","tag-elizabeth-sondheimer","tag-gospel","tag-history","tag-jewish","tag-john-f-kennedy","tag-love","tag-medger-evers","tag-ohio","tag-racism","tag-secrets-of-the","tag-white"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=352"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1396,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352\/revisions\/1396"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=352"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=352"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=352"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}