{"id":1593,"date":"2020-07-27T15:55:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T15:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/?p=1593"},"modified":"2021-07-10T19:48:05","modified_gmt":"2021-07-10T19:48:05","slug":"a-glitter-girls-guarantee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/2020\/07\/27\/a-glitter-girls-guarantee\/","title":{"rendered":"A Glitter Girl&#8217;s Guarantee"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-thumbnail\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/FullSizeRender-5-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1594\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHere Mommy, I want you to have this.\u201d My son handed me a small lump of pyrite better known as Fool\u2019s Gold. The metallic-looking substance brilliantly reflected the room\u2019s light causing countless iridescent rays to dance on its crystalized surface. On an ordinary day, this glistening gold gift would have improved my disposition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThank you. It\u2019s beautiful,\u201d I tried to sound enthusiastic since my little boy was patiently waiting for the praise that should follow such sacrificial generosity. I mean what second grader willingly gives up a glittering mineral? Besides, I was trying to conceal my melancholy mood, but Zach sensed it and wanted to brighten my day.&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe, because I was a single mom, my son learned early on about girls and glitter. Admittedly, all females aren\u2019t fans of glam and bling, although sparkly things do make some of us smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that he\u2019s a grown man, Zach doesn\u2019t remember that afternoon. Nor would he know about the strange craving for potato chips and hot sauce I had when I was pregnant with him. Those months of pregnancy were the only time I ate this bizarre combination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Decades ago, greedily munching on greasy chips smothered in smoldering red sauce taught me a valuable lesson. I learned to pay close attention to food cravings, accepting it might be the physical body\u2019s way of saying it has a nutritional need. Our soul and spirit have authentic hunger pangs, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_5537-1-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1596\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_5537-1-150x200.jpg 150w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_5537-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_5537-1-rotated.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This past spring during the Covid-19 lockdown, another strange craving hit me full force. This wasn&#8217;t a hankering for an unusual food, rather it was an intense yearning to see something beautiful that glittered. Isn\u2019t this why girls of all ages shop for bedazzled t-shirts, carry ornamented purses, or host costume jewelry parties? Shiny objects don\u2019t have to be expensive, but they do have to glisten in the sunlight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bottom line, the pandemic gloom created an emotional hunger for some sparkle. Although, it wasn&#8217;t for necklaces, earrings, or sequined shirts. Part of my longing was to bless someone else, because social distancing made me aware of how much I need female friends. Candidly, I must confess I\u2019m not very good at cultivating or nurturing these important relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet during the lonely season of sheltering-in-place, I received an inspirational card from a dear friend named Mary. The card\u2019s front cover was sprinkled with decorative gold glitter. It was an encouraging, not-for-any-reason card, reminding me I was &#8220;priceless and irreplaceable.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My friend is in her early eighties. She couldn\u2019t have known how immensely the card would comfort me on some rather dark days while sheltering-in-place. More significantly, I believe Mary has a greeting card ministry. This compassionate retired teacher possesses a spiritual gift to send cards which seem to arrive at the exact moment the receiver desperately needs uplifting. Other women from Mary\u2019s circle can attest to this providential timing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong, I sincerely appreciate receiving a text, email, or personal social media message from a concerned well-wisher. But there\u2019s something special about going to your mailbox and finding an unexpected envelope containing a thoughtful note from a friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why, I decided to follow Mary\u2019s example and fill my craving for something sparkly by sending out some greeting cards myself. It wasn\u2019t \u201cessential\u201d to venture out shopping, instead I purchased an assortment of attractive cards on the Internet. Of course, they were decorated with glitter and an uplifting message. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I ended up mailing a half-dozen greetings out. It was my intent to comfort, encourage, and support a few female family members and friends with some sparkle and heartfelt sentiment. I was blessed back with the incredible sense of reward we receive when we give, expecting nothing in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For instance, I had been meaning to send a card to the mother of a former college classmate who died in her twenties. We hadn\u2019t been in touch for decades, but this past year, I couldn\u2019t get my late friend\u2019s mom off my mind, so shutdown gave me time to send her a card.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her return note turned out to be an unexpected blessing. After all, Covid-19 statistics continue to rise, racial injustice has divided our nation, unemployment is daunting, and we have no idea what tomorrow will hold. Yet this dear lady shared a poignant quote offering hope for the future, \u201cGod\u2019s plans are greater than any plans we can imagine.\u201d That\u2019s truly a guarantee a glitter girl can cling to.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-thumbnail\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Christina-Ryan-Claypool-Red-PR-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1566\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Christina Ryan Claypool is a freelance journalist and inspirational speaker who has been featured on Joyce Meyer Ministries Enjoying Everyday Life TV show and on CBN\u2019s 700 Club. Her most recent inspirational book is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Secrets-Pastors-Wife-Christina-Claypool-ebook\/dp\/B07HD2Q2C1\/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&amp;keywords=Secrets+of+the+Pastor%27s+Wife%3A+A+Novel&amp;qid=1595451947&amp;sr=8-1\">&#8220;Secrets of the Pastor&#8217;s Wife: A Novel<\/a>.&#8221; Her amazing life journey includes surviving a near fatal suicide attempt and confinement in a state mental institution as a teen to having a successful life today. Christina has a B.A. from Bluffton University and an M.A. from Mount Vernon Nazarene University. Her website is&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.christinaryanclaypool.com\/\">www.christinaryanclaypool.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHere Mommy, I want you to have this.\u201d My son handed me a small lump of pyrite better known as Fool\u2019s Gold. 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