{"id":1223,"date":"2017-11-15T17:25:28","date_gmt":"2017-11-15T17:25:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/?p=1223"},"modified":"2017-11-15T20:24:04","modified_gmt":"2017-11-15T20:24:04","slug":"1223","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/2017\/11\/15\/1223\/","title":{"rendered":"Purses, junk drawers, and too much stuff"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1225\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Purse-Vera-Bradley-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" \/>Most Americans own a lot more material possessions than they need. According to professional organizer, Regina Lark, \u201cThe average U.S. household has 300,000 things, from paper clips to ironing boards.\u201d (Los Angeles Times) \u00a0Although, sometimes I feel like all this stuff is in my purse.<\/p>\n<p>My personal obsession with minimalizing began when my husband and I downsized about four years ago. When you have a designated amount of space, you have to learn how to use that space wisely. Besides, watching the TV show, \u201cHoarders,\u201d is a pretty frightening reality check about what can happen if one accumulates massive amounts of unnecessary items.<\/p>\n<p>Taking walks in my neighborhood is also beneficial, because there are countless homes I pass with open garages overflowing with who-knows-what. Apparently, \u201c25% of people with two-car garages don\u2019t have room to park cars inside them\u00a0and 32% only have room for one vehicle.\u201d (U.S. Department of Energy) I thought I was keeping my own admiration for knick-knacks in check, until a first-time visit from a family member recently. I had scrubbed and dusted for days, and was proud of my sparkling clean home when the first thing out of my relative\u2019s mouth was, \u201cThere are a lot of tchotchkes in here.\u201d\u00a0Believe me, the statement wasn\u2019t meant to be rude, it was merely an observation. I didn\u2019t know what a \u201ctchotchke\u201d was, but I could tell it wasn\u2019t good.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat\u2019s a tchotchke,\u201d I asked nervously.<\/p>\n<p>The answer, \u201cknick-knacks,\u201d confirmed my worst fear. I am still a collector of too much stuff. There was no truer validation of this than the junk drawer in my kitchen. When it was opened, often it had to be forced shut. In my defense, I\u2019m pleased to report that many individuals have an unorganized junk drawer in their home.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1226\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Junk-drawer-1-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" \/>\u00a0I ascertained this interesting fact through another one of my unscientific Facebook surveys. Dozens of respondents shared about their junk drawers, while some did qualify that they organized their junk drawers. Others commenting protested that a junk drawer would not be a junk drawer, if it was organized. Still, I had to do something about mine, because whenever I searched for a bread tie, magic marker, roll of tape, etc., it was an indictment of my disorganized housekeeping. Like some other folks in the informal survey, I bought various-sized plastic trays to place inside the drawer and filled each tray with specific-like items. I learned this tip from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.organizedbyolive.com\">professional organizer, Olive Wagar<\/a>. Now, the drawer is perfectly arranged, but I\u2019m wondering how long this will last.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1227\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/junk-drawer-makeover-e1510766291964-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/junk-drawer-makeover-e1510766291964-150x200.jpg 150w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/junk-drawer-makeover-e1510766291964-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/junk-drawer-makeover-e1510766291964.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>That said, I also wonder if there is any hope for my purse, because I don\u2019t think dollar store trays will help. Unfortunately, I\u2019m one of those women who keeps you waiting in the checkout line, while I dig at the bottom of my purse for loose change. After all, everything is in there somewhere. \u00a0The purse situation called for another survey, so I asked my Facebook friends if their purses are neatly arranged or chaotic like mine, even though I diligently try to keep it tidy. One honest lady used the words, \u201chot mess\u201d to describe the inside of her purse, while another used the term, \u201cblack whole.\u201d Yet, the majority of the 71 comments either expressed their opinion that they had very organized handbags, or \u201coverall\u201d their purses had everything in its perfect place.<\/p>\n<p>This survey might have been tragically flawed. Most women who have untidy purses are probably not too willing to share that when they stick their hand inside of it, they are unsure what will come out. A junk drawer is one thing, but a purse negatively reflects its owner, and in our brand-conscious society maybe the outside label, even more than the disorganized inside. For instance, the other day I was in a retail store buying a pair of \u201cGrandma\u201d slippers. An attractive young woman with an impressive designer shoulder bag stood in line behind me. I clutched my worn pleather (fake leather) bag close to my body, trying not to envy or feel diminished by this youthful style setter.<\/p>\n<p>Therein lies the problem with the purse. Sometimes, women judge other women or even themselves by their handbag. This war of the purses has to stop. And it will in my little world, as soon as I get my hands on a designer handbag exactly like trendy fashionista. Just kidding, it\u2019s me and my messy, faithful, pleather purse to the end.<\/p>\n<p><em><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1197\" src=\"http:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Christina-Ryan-Claypool-for-Website-smallest-192x240-150x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" \/>Christina Ryan Claypool is an Amy and Ohio AP award-winning\u00a0 freelance journalist and inspirational speaker. She is also a two-time Chicken Soup for the Soul contributor, who has been featured on Joyce Meyer&#8217;s Enjoying Everyday Life TV show. Contact her through her website at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.christinaryanclaypool.com\">www.christinaryanclaypool.com.\u00a0 <\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most Americans own a lot more material possessions than they need. According to professional organizer, Regina Lark, \u201cThe average U.S. household has 300,000 things, from paper clips to ironing boards.\u201d (Los Angeles Times) \u00a0Although, sometimes I feel like all this &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/2017\/11\/15\/1223\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1227,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[909,908,906,910,912,450,911,655,907],"class_list":["post-1223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-designer-purses","tag-hoarding","tag-junk-drawer","tag-material-possessions","tag-olive-wagar","tag-organization","tag-professional-organizer","tag-purses","tag-stuff"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1223","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1223"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1223\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1232,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1223\/revisions\/1232"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1227"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christinaryanclaypool.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}